Proud of my Upbringing
Despite the numerous issues in Trinidad, I am proud to have grown up here.
The culture of Trinidad and Tobago
has been shaped by many ethnic groups. This is something that I feel is underappreciated
by our population. Though the Caribbean is viewed as ‘melting pot’ of cultures,
I notice how similar my life is to my Bridgewater State University (BSU)
contemporary. It was fascinating to hear that despite living in what seems like
a world apart; I am from San Juan, Trinidad and they from Raynham,
Massachusetts, we feel similarly about our family, childhood, and experiences.
We both call our parents ‘Mom’ and ‘Dad,’ for example. Though my parents were
heavily involved in my upbringing they worked throughout my childhood, and my
grandparents cared for me most of the time. My BSU peer, however, had a
stay-at-home mother who was the primary caregiver for the children while their
father worked. My BSU peer described
their family and hometown as conservative while my parents encouraged me to
focus on education and were liberal with affection. My BSU peer adheres to
gender roles and during our interaction did not discuss emotions. But I thought
about our childhood differences and grew a deeper appreciation for the way I
was raised. I realised that I was privileged to be able to express my emotions.
We found common ground when we discussed what home meant to us and agreed that
while home was a tangible place, it was also a feeling of safety where we could
be ourselves. I also noticed that we have different university experiences
because, I still live with my parents and commute to campus while they live in
a dorm in Boston near BSU with their friends. I was a bit envious because
living with your closest friends sounds like the epitome of the university
experience. Overall, I felt that our conversation flowed freely and relaxed—I
had fun. I am interested in different cultures because I find there are always similarities.
It’s intriguing to think that I can share similar experiences with someone living
in a different continent.
By Kaitlyn Barran
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